Chapter 3.6. A Visitor Is Not An Inspector

When you enter a home, whether as a visitor or an overnight guest, do not closely examine    its  contents  as  an  inspector  would. Limit   your observation to what you need to see. Do not open closed closets, or boxes. Do not inspect a wallet, a package, or a covered object. This is against Islamic manners and an impolite betrayal of the trust your host has accorded to you. Uphold these manners during your visit and seek to cultivate your host's love and respect, and may Allah bless and protect you.

Imam Muhasibi in Risalat Al-Mustershidin said: 'The duty of sight is to preclude forbidden sights and not to try to see what has been hidden or covered. Dawood Al- Ta'i said ‘I was told we will be accountable for our minor gazes as we are accountable for minor deeds.'

The Arabic poet Miskin Al-Darimi said:

'My neighbour should not worry if his door is not closed.'

• Choosing A Seat
• Timing Your Visit

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